We live in a society today where being a victim at times is notable. We need to realize if we don’t play that deck of cards for ourselves, others won’t either? I’m too fat, therefore, I’m a victim. I’m not smart enough, therefore, no one will hire me. My personal favorite is I have a disability, so treat me as such. When we play the victim card, we lose out on so many opportunities for our futures.
While I don’t play the victim card very often, I will say it has been easier to function as one for these last two years as I’m sure it has been for us all. There have been built in low expectations and excuses—Covid won’t allow this. Let’s remember, Covid excuses won’t be here forever.
What do I do when the victim mentality wants to take control of me? I reflect on how blessed I am. I remind myself daily that what I do, I have control over. I may not be able to walk, but that doesn’t mean I can’t be a productive member of society. I graduated from high school and college. I worked as a preschool teacher for four years and am now a published author and building my business in speaking.
How do you prevent yourself from being a “victim”? This is the perfect time of year to practice gratitude. Remember what you have and be thankful. Remember who you are and what you’re capable of.
In the words of Steve Maraboli, “The victim mindset dilutes human potential. By not accepting personal responsibility for our circumstances, we greatly reduce our power to change them.”
Go into 2022 being victorious instead of victimized!
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